“Textbook Slut”

Nope, it’s not some weird schoolgirl fetish if that’s where your mind went. Rather, “textbook slut” was a phrase used and defined in a comment on yesterday’s HowAboutWe article about the promiscuity line.

“Face it, ladies: if you’re 35 and still anywhere near as hot as you were at 20, you’re putting a LOT more work into it. If she’s still playing the field at that point, instead of having kids (or, as too many I’ve met, *in addition to* having kids), then she probably IS more concerned with adding more notches to her bedpost than to making one of them work. And that, lasses, is textbook ‘slut’.”

So glad we cleared that up… For the record, this commenter would like to assure “all you sluts foaming at the mouth” that he or she holds men to the same standard. Oh goodie. P.S. Pick a fucking pronoun, would you? Is this a second person diatribe or a third person observation?

In that vein, sometime in the next few weeks I’ll be writing about the pros and cons of sex on the first date. I would LOVE your thoughts. Feel free to leave a comment, or email sayhitorosie AT gmail.com. OR, because I’m all fancy, you can fill out a form! (Hold your applause… this is some low-budget shit up in here). The form might allow for some anonymity if you’re not in the mood to broadcast.

Related Post: This is what happened the last time I asked for your input. (Warning: SFW, but graphic writing!)

Related Post: A very different definition of “slut.” SlutWalk ’11 takes Chicago.

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4 responses to ““Textbook Slut”

  1. Had to request access to your googledoc, just FYI =)

  2. Pros: You find out if the person is suited to you physically as well as mentally without the long lead up. It really is advantageous to find out that Mr. First Date is horrible in bed. Then you don’t have to continue playing those games with him. It’s a lot less complicated than the long courting process, and a lot of the time it can just mean that you had a lot in common and were both horny.

    Cons: If the partner is an idiot he could start rumours, start thinking different of you and so on.

    Personally, I think it’s a great idea. All of my relationships started with sex. I’ve had a few long ones. Why hang around someone who is a bore in bed? BORING!

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